Of course something comes out of suffering. That’s a given by anyone’s standards. Of suffering, I mean. It cannot be avoided, but one thing a sufferer need not do, is to entertain the storyline of their pain. It just won’t work for them in the long-run. You’re diagnosed, you’re not, if you’re far, far luckier at this game. Take it, accept it, however hard that might just become for any one person, and it WILL BE SO VERY OUTLANDISHLY FUCKIKG HARD!! And try and be SURE-AS-SHIT to always remember: it’s just a wobbly ol’ piece of mucky stuff wedged safely inside of a skull. That’s it, that’s what you’re dealing with 😃